We need pleasure seeker monasteries/labratories to
Explore the wide range of erotic behavior as it informs/ activates/ re-creates/energize the rest of our lives as well as expanding the deep fun of being human
Imagine if we spent 10% of the US military budget on that research …….
I saw this notification immediately after waking up for a nap and could not for the life of me figure out what it meant until I found your other comment, lol!!
I wish it was better studied overall—I had a brief stint in psychology (before I decided to be a broke writer) and it’s crazy how limited the research on sex was, at least back then
That is both provocative and potentially a distraction from exploring the interventive/revelatory resetting of the individual and collective/collaborative sensual-sexual networks
YAY!!! What a pleasure (hehe) it was to have been connected with you in 2025, and to start 2026 with you in my life!!!! Can’t wait to see all the cool stuff you get up to this year!!!
I loved the quote you posted as a note. The stuff that gets mediated through screens is so sanitised it barely counts as sexual discourse anymore. It's more like marketing. The most honest conversations about desire I've had have always been behind closed doors.
We need pleasure seeker monasteries/labratories to
Explore the wide range of erotic behavior as it informs/ activates/ re-creates/energize the rest of our lives as well as expanding the deep fun of being human
Imagine if we spent 10% of the US military budget on that research …….
Monasteries being pan sexual in this usage
I saw this notification immediately after waking up for a nap and could not for the life of me figure out what it meant until I found your other comment, lol!!
I wish it was better studied overall—I had a brief stint in psychology (before I decided to be a broke writer) and it’s crazy how limited the research on sex was, at least back then
There is “showtime” performative sensual sexual
That is both provocative and potentially a distraction from exploring the interventive/revelatory resetting of the individual and collective/collaborative sensual-sexual networks
The deep fun of
Personal and societal dissolution- recreation
Turn on as prayer
loved to have found you in 2025! I hope you bring some steamy lit events to LA in 2026! <3
I’d love to! Let me know if you know a sponsor ;)
What a year. Love you and this insane and important project <3
Thank you for supporting it 🥹❤️ I’m so happy you’re also killing it on Substack!!
YAY!!! What a pleasure (hehe) it was to have been connected with you in 2025, and to start 2026 with you in my life!!!! Can’t wait to see all the cool stuff you get up to this year!!!
You're amazing
right back atcha!!
I loved the quote you posted as a note. The stuff that gets mediated through screens is so sanitised it barely counts as sexual discourse anymore. It's more like marketing. The most honest conversations about desire I've had have always been behind closed doors.
Desire and sex and pleasure aren't synonymous, let alone aligned. Anyone who's given birth knows the difference.
I just wrote a piece on how to have good sex and I loved the framing of your article so well wrote ! Subscribed and grateful for this post.
why didn't i get to participate in the year in sex???